"Lipstick lesbian" is a slang term for a lesbian who exhibits a significant amount of traditionally feminine gender attributes. This can include wearing makeup (hence "lipstick"), dresses, skirts, having traditionally feminine hairstyles, and otherwise presenting in a way that aligns with conventional femininity.

Here's a breakdown of the key aspects:

• Feminine Expression: The defining characteristic of a lipstick lesbian is their traditionally feminine gender expression. This is often in contrast to the stereotype of lesbians as being more masculine or "butch".
• Attraction to Women: Despite their feminine presentation, lipstick lesbians are women who are romantically, emotionally, and/or sexually attracted to other women. Their gender expression does not dictate their sexual orientation.
• Not a Monolithic Identity: Just like any other identity, there's a wide range of ways someone can be a lipstick lesbian. Some may embrace hyper-femininity, while others might simply enjoy aspects of feminine presentation.
• Historical Context: The term gained popularity in the late 20th century, particularly in the 1980s and 1990s, as a way for some lesbians to express their identity while also embracing femininity.
• Potential for Stereotypes: The term can sometimes be used with stereotypes, both positive and negative. Some may see it as glamorous and confident, while others might use it to suggest that feminine lesbians are trying to appeal to men or are somehow "less lesbian".
• Distinction from "Femme": While the terms are sometimes used interchangeably, "femme" can be a broader term encompassing a feminine identity that might go beyond just appearance to include mannerisms and attitudes. All lipstick lesbians might be considered femmes, but not all femmes are necessarily "lipstick" in their presentation.

The Lipstick Lesbian Flag:

There is a specific pride flag associated with the term "lipstick lesbian". It was created in 2010 by Natalie McCray and features seven stripes in shades of red and pink, with a white stripe in the centre and a red kiss mark in the upper left corner.

However, this flag has not been widely adopted by the lesbian community due to a few reasons:

• Exclusionary Concerns: Some lesbians felt the flag focused too narrowly on a specific presentation and didn't represent the diversity within the lesbian community, particularly butch lesbians.
• Controversial Creator: The flag's creator faced accusations of transphobic, biphobic, and racist views, leading many to distance themselves from the symbol.

As a result, while the term "lipstick lesbian" describes a specific expression within the lesbian community, the associated flag is not a widely accepted symbol. The broader lesbian community currently uses the "Sunset" lesbian flag (with shades of orange, white, and pink) more commonly.